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Why a Small Group is Needed for Spiritual Growth
Thor Knutstad
Although we live in a culture that encourages us to look out only for ourselves,
it is clear that we were not created to be self-centered and isolated. Community—a
necessity of life—can only be found in investing our lives with other
people. What is community? My house is located in a growing Philadelphia suburb,
yet I live within another community, a development called Heather Glen. My
home comprises yet another community of four individuals: me, my wife and two
sons. What about the local church? Is the local church an assembly composed
of 400+ individuals?, or are we 400+ individuals who are unified
in a community of faith? In the family of the local church, the
leadership team must be committed to a spiritual growth process that develops
community within the context of a small group. Many small group ministries
are shifting the terminology from small groups to “Growth Groups.”
Growth Groups are based on the concept of biblical community found in the
Word of God. Jesus spoke to the masses, but had close relationships with His
12 disciples. The early church in Acts 2 met together in their homes for fellowship
and for worship (Acts 2:46-47 says that they met every day). Now, I’m
not suggesting that we should meet together every day. The demands in our schedules
for balance are often challenged by work, family, relaxation, and yes, even
church involvement. However, growth groups need to be a priority for individuals
and families who attend the local church. The Bible speaks about the church
by calling it “the body of Christ.” A body is one unit, with many
parts. Each part has a function as it lives, moves, grows, and serves. If you
are a Christ-follower, you are a part of that body.
And you cannot grow without being spiritually connected to the other parts
of the body…
While most growth groups meet in homes for fellowship, for Bible study, and
for building relationships, some groups meet at the church office…some
groups serve and minister together in a particular area of service ministry…some
are composed of men…some are composed of women…some are for singles
or divorced persons…some are for married couples…some are for
teenagers…some meet for Bible study...All of these groups have leaders
who facilitate discussions (let’s not forget the hosts who provide a
relaxed, intimate setting in many homes). Groups are usually composed of about
10-12 people who meet to pray, to learn more about a relationship with Jesus
Christ, and to help each other during life’s most taxing struggles. Growth
groups are a burden-bearing group (Gal.6:2). These smaller biblical communities
do more than simply apply the truth of God’s Word to a particular circumstance
or situation. These groups, built on lasting, meaningful friendships, become
a tool of spiritual formation and growth as people are challenged, encouraged,
and equipped for life. Growth groups celebrate life’s victories while
at the same time they support each other during life’s most
difficult challenges and crises. Growth groups are there for
people during the good times and the bad. What happens in your body when you
get hurt? Every other part works together as a unit to send aid, help, and
healing…growth group body members should be no different…
Growth group leaders (facilitators, co-facilitators, and hosts) should be
trained and equipped to provide a setting and an atmosphere of safety (acceptance),
authenticity, and servant-hood. They also need to have experience in leading
discussions. Growth group leaders need to apply the following core
values for growth groups: community, safety/acceptance, authenticity,
care-giving, sense of belonging, encouragement, Biblical, practical, service-oriented,
committed, listening, and discipling. The term “disciple” literally
means “learner or follower.” Disciples are taught, nurtured, shepherded,
and connected. Will you take the next step in getting connected to a growth
group? |